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Ibintu Bitatu Byica Urukundo

Monday 18 April 2011

1.Kwigira bamenya (thinking you know everything) : Buri muntu ashimishwa no kumva ko ibyo abwiye inshuti ye ibihaye agaciro. Bityo rero si byiza habe na mba guhora uca mu ijambo inshuti yawe ngo urayereka aho yibeshye kuko biyirakaza. Mu by’ ukuri gukosora uwo ukunda ni byiza, ariko iyo ukabije kwigira bamenya bimutera kutifuza kubana nawe igihe kinini bikaba byamuviramo no kukuzinukwa.

Kutaganira ( not communicating): Ntibikunze kubaho ko abantu baba inshuti nyanshuti bataganira, ni nayo mpamvu kenshi na kenshi nk’ iyo ukunda umuntu akajya mu mahanga agatindayo utagira icyizere cyinshi ko akigutekereza. Ikindi, mubwire ikigushimishije cyangwa ikiguhangayikishije aho kwicecekera ugategereza ko abyivumburira. Nanone niba ubona ahangayitse mwegere umubaze icyabaye kuko bituma arushaho kukwiyumvamo.

Kumva ko ibyo muganira byose byaba bikwerekeyeho( making it all about you)
: Kugwa muri uyu mutego biroroshye kuko benshi bawugwamo batanawubonye . Yego, kuganira ku buzima bwanyu bwite ni iby’ agaciro ariko nanone kumva ko ibiganiro byose byaba bivuga kuri wowe wenyine ku buryo umuca no mu ijambo ngo uzane insanganyamatsiko ikwerekeyeho si byiza. Irinde agakabyo.

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